"mistakes shouldn't be mistaken, but should be taken seriously"
Nobody is perfect. we all do mistakes and then regret. But the very important thing is learning from those mistakes. Everybody says. " people can make a mistake once and then they will learn from it and will never make a mistake again". But it's wrong because I've experienced it and I assume you must've too. I do a lot of mistakes and then even regret a lot.
I keep telling myself, " I should've not done that; I should've been more cautioned; I'm useless; I let everyone down". But you know what, that's fine, that's absolutely okay. It happens with everyone. That phase comes when you blame yourself for your mistakes and there's nothing wrong in it. But it would be wrong if you get tormented by those thoughts.
' you make mistakes because of lack of knowledge.you make mistakes because you're perplexed.
you may make a mistake if your mind is not steady'.
so, once a mistake is done, it couldn't be undone, but you feel accused. At such a situation you should firstly calm your mind. you'll have to stop blaming yourself; instead you'll have to come to the positive side. " whatever happens, happens for good", you may have heard of this phrase. And for the past few days I've been giving much attention to this. And actually it's true. so just think, if you'd haven't done any mistake.
"how would you ever know that you've to learn from it?, how would you ever know that you've to be cautioned next time?".
you should not regret, but should confide yourself about your mistakes. you should take a step ahead to change it. Mistakes are too important for you to know where you're going wrong in life. And that's why "mistakes shouldn't be mistaken".
sonali paria.
